A little weird
One of my ex's is getting married in nine days. It's just a little weird to think of someone I've kissed about to be someone's wife. Now don't get me wrong, I'm really excited for her, and in no way wish it was me, but it's still a little freaky. I kind of felt the same way when the bum was good friends/almost dating another of my ex's. What would it be like to be at/in a wedding where you've made out with the bride?
If nothing else, it just reaffirms my desire to make sure I treat any woman I date properly, especially in the physical sense. Do I like the idea of my (hypothetical) bride-to-be kissing/making out with anyone else? Not especially. I'm not especially proud of how I've handled physical intimacy with my previous friends, and that's too bad. Not that I've done anything ghastly or anything, I'm just somewhat introspective... If I ever enter into another relationship, I do hope I have more discipline and a little better perspective with regards to our physical relationship.
If nothing else, it just reaffirms my desire to make sure I treat any woman I date properly, especially in the physical sense. Do I like the idea of my (hypothetical) bride-to-be kissing/making out with anyone else? Not especially. I'm not especially proud of how I've handled physical intimacy with my previous friends, and that's too bad. Not that I've done anything ghastly or anything, I'm just somewhat introspective... If I ever enter into another relationship, I do hope I have more discipline and a little better perspective with regards to our physical relationship.
posted by spocktongue at 10:45 AM
2 Comments:
thanks for the reminder. :/
As far as the physical stuff goes, I think that age and maturity will help ... but that's hard to be sure of. One thing's for sure - it gets incredibly easier once you get married. :)
Interesting... I was thinking about all that just the other day. I hope that there is no regret. I know I don't have any. You are a great guy... one day the relationship won't end in "ex" for you too. I am sure of it. Maturity means a lot. Keep growing. That is all you can do!
PS... you can comment you know! It won't kill you!
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