The title has nothing to do with this post, I just wanted to complain about how freakin' cold it is.
Had a very interesting conversation yesterday about God's place in a marriage. And it's not necessarily something I didn't know, but to hear it said, to hear it to be "ok," and to see people who live that way, it's really cool. When "leaders" of the house church I attend get stressed, get excited, get confused, or any other pertinent emotion/verb strikes them, they don't go to the other. They go to God. I know God is supposed to number one, even above a spouse (maybe
especially above a spouse), but to see someone attest to that and really live that is pretty cool. And encouraging--that it's possible to achieve the thing I'm striving for and do so within the contexts of a marriage, something else that would be nice at some point in the future.
enter smooth transition hereI have a hypothetical situation I want to throw out there and get feedback on. Say this person you love and want to marry ends up, through no fault of her own, to have this deadly disease. To consummate a potential marriage would involve contracting the disease on your own. For extra kicks, let's say that the life expectancy after contraction of this disease is only a couple of years. So, would you actually marry the person? And if so, actually consummate the marriage (after all, sex is an important part of marriage, in my completely single opinion)? Would doing so be really stupid, or really romantic? I'm curious as to your thoughts...
(for what it's worth, the origin of this train of thought is not a desire on my part to get married to someone I know who has such a disease...or any disease, for that matter)